My Apologies to Everyone

I'm not myself these days. To any and all I've offended, my sincere

Pat...

Who are you?

apologies.

Matthew...

Please Jill we are all family out here everyone deserves a day to not

Julie Cook...

Jill,
I've thought about you all weekend and sent purrs and good thoughts your
way. The only reason I mentioned anything to you in another thread was
because I was worried about you. And I saw myself in something you had said.
Friday afternoon I had a really bad migraine, it began with a violent aura
which is always a sign that this is going to be a bad one. But several
hours before it started I had become mildly confrontational with someone I
work with. I am the most nonconfrontational person I know. I recognize a
conversation that can't be resolved and I politely back off. This time, I
had been feeling "not myself" for several hours but hadn't considered a
migraine. I never recognize the prodromal phase of a migraine. But someone
approached me and asked me to do something that just set me off and I argued
with her. Suddenly I realized I was not well and this was probably a
migraine warning and I backed off. When she left I closed my computer and
walked out the door. I called my boss on the way home and explained to him
what had happened and that I had chosen to leave before it got worse.
Fortunately, he agreed with me (he has migraines as well) and told me to go
home and have a drink and try to relax. About 2 hours later the aura began
and I felt better knowing the reason that I let someone get on my nerves. I
used to do that every month when I was still having monthly cycles. Being a
somewhat disorganized person (why is my husband laughing at that? Why are
tears running down his cheeks?) Ok, being a disorganized person (is that
better, dear?) I never kept a calendar and the only reason I knew my cycle
was about to begin is because I became a very nasty person to be around. I
would argue with someone who told me the sky was blue and the trees grew
straight toward the sun.

Anyhow, you are not an insensitive person. As a matter of fact you are one
of the sweetest ladies I know on this group and I always enjoy reading your
posts. When your posts turned insensitive I knew something had to be wrong.
Next time this happens tell us you need some support and we'll all gather
round and have a group grope or a group hug whichever you'd prefer.

In the meantime, I've thought of some ideas that might help you feather your
coffers some. I'll start a new thread so that others can add ideas and maybe
several people here might find an idea that would help them make a little
extra money that could help get them through the hard times.

But regardless of what happens, know that we are all behind you and wishing
you the very best.

Purrs, headbutts and huggs,
Julie, Hobbes, Selena, Lacey, Sam and Barnabus

kilikini...

Yay! Someone else who sees Jill's incredible qualities! Purrs to Jill that
she gets through these steps with her father smoothly. It's not easy to
watch a parent literally disintegrate.

Sam...

Not at all offended. You've got a lot on your mind right now.
{{{{{{{{{{ Jill }}}}}}}}}}

Adrian A...

I'd be surprised if you've offened anyone, most people here know what you're
going through.

Hugs and purrs.

be their self